Me, too, Imdi. There are a lot of painful thoughts that I have to work through. I still can't believe that my H. and I are at this point in our marriage...what's left of it. I am sure you can empathize.
I guess you and I both have to at least allow the idea that there might be better out there for us, no matter if that's a scary thought or not. For me, it certainly is. I know you and I are great people, Imdi, and our H's know it, too. After all, they did walk down the aisle with us at one time.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
