He told me i looked hot...told him I knew that! This is exactly what Chuck told me to do...let H. know you KNOW you look good, in a flirty manner.
And, you left when he got back. Good! I know how hard that must be for you, because all you want to do is stay there with H. and kitties. You have a lot of strength, Imdi.
Ok to post the answer to your question here? H. had to admit it. I found photos he took of him and her in another city when he had said he was there visiting a family member. He lied to me. He took her for a weekend away, took photos of the trip (they went sightseeing) and had them on his computer. For some reason (and I truly believe it was a Higher Power helping me find the answer I was looking for; H. was acting SO odd for over a month) I looked on his computer and found these photos. I confronted him, and he could no longer lie. At that point, it had been going on for 4 months. Only for about 2 did I sense he was "off" but when I asked him if he was seeing someone else, he denied, denied, denied. He got very good at lying to me.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
