Thanks everybody...it means so much to me that all of you care...
Brava - I could ask my H...i always do this though. I don't ask, for fear of rejection, then he doesn't offer b/c he doesn't think i want him to go. Becomes a pride thing. I just have to remind myself that pride is my worst enemy. Once i know more details, i will discuss with him. I imagine he will offer to go, since he went with me when i got the biopsies done.