Sorry to hear about test results. Always good to catch those things early but I can imagine it must be scary. My mom had cancer that got caught in time but I know every year when she goes for her check in .. it is scary for her.
WOuld you feel comfortable perhaps even just asking H if he would go with you?
brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05