Quote: That is the real question that we all have. I wonder sometimes if my W has ever felt that she deserved someone like me. I read the real meaning of love. I can honestly say that I know what real love is now that I am in my sitch. You never really know how much you love someone until they start acting out and wanting to live without you. One day our spouses will see it. I can and will forgive her if she sees it in her heart to try again.
Excellent thoughts...and so I pose the question...how/why did we all allow ourselves and our sitch's to get here in the first place..is this to teach us a lesson on cherishing people and never taking advantage of them? Living each day as though there may never be a tomorrow? Because from what I see, the WAS have often indicating feeling abandoned, depressed, some of them are alcoholic's. While an A is never justified, I think often it is a cry out for something...the WAS last resort and sometimes in some cases...the end result of years of frustration.
