are they only so attractive to the LBS because someone else the op found them to be attractive and so now we wonder just what the hell we lost and why we didn't give them all that they needed.

Sassy,
I'll admit, yes, this thought has crossed my mind more than once. I feel perhaps I took H. for granted. And then the other half of me says how could I take someone like him for granted; look how he has treated ME.

Imdi??


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.