I'm definitely in. My H was definitely the one in the past who did all the chasing. Funny how you want what you can't have. There is a small part of me that really really worries that the reason I'm fighting so hard for our M is because he wants to leave. I know that's not true but it does bother me.
Here's another thought. Can our spouses really be as great as we think when they don't realize how smart, beautiful, funny and amazing we all are. I mean honestly, my H is never going to find someone better than me and he is in serious danger of throwing it all away.