Hey hope- Thanks for checking in...had an okay night. Dinner with a girlfriend, then home. H did call to tell me he bought me something...go figure! On my long drive to work this morning, i decided that i am really going to try to lower my expectations of him. Now, that might sound kind of crazy, but it is for my own sanity. If i expect less of him, then if i get more, i will be even happier.