Quote: So, hope...if our H's won't file b/c they don't want to be the bad guy and we don't do it b/c we don't want to, then how long will this limbo last? I mean, i don't want to be in the same place 5 or 10 years from now. There are just sometimes i would like to spend a minute inside my H's head, just to get an idea of what the f... he is thinking.
I sure wish I knew how long the limbo would last, or what these guys are really thinking. Actually, I suspect that their thoughts are so inconsistant that it would do us no good to know them anyway.
I hope you have fun tonight! Talk to you in the new year.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
