Lmdi,

You sure seem trust worthy to me. Also, hmmm consider his behavior I think you are entitled to be less concerned about that issue.(imho )

Even if you go out more that does not make you any less trustworthy. That is H's issue - you cant fix that one for him. And anyway, you are being a great wife!

Maybe ask yourself if you would do anything differently if this trust issue were not on the table, if it just didnt exist. Maybe it is time for a 180.

I think even within DBing we need to keep 180ing to spice things up. So not only what didi I do when before DBing but what have I been doing lately that I could change.

Good for you about NYE. Do something a bit naughtier than you normally wouldnt do.. be extra flirty with someone, wear something sexier than normal- whatever. I find that when I am naughty it makes my Hs constant "naughtiness" less powerful. Petty? perhaps, but it seems to work.

You are doing so well Lmdi and are a true inspiration.


I wish you all the best in 2006!

(so glad to have "met" you here on the BB.)

brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05