realize that perhaps the *reason* you feel the need to push is because you're actually and finally getting somewhere with your H.
You are right...i have a hard time accepting what i am getting from him. I always seem to want more. That happened when we first separated...and he said that he couldn't do anymore than what he was doing. I need to have some restraint and just accept where we are at now, instead of trying to look too far into the future.
My options: continue to fight; file for D; fight the D if he files; move on. I guess that covers all the bases. I know that i need to GAL...i do try, but it is so hard.
Thanks for replying pandDBing...i did start to read your about your sitch last night...i need to go back and finish reading...
