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DBing is difficult always, but I would argue that it's the most difficult to do when we're actually seeing baby steps.

Yes, you're still in limbo, and you're probably going to stay there for some time. That's why I believe it's important for you to be sure of what you want, and know your boundaries as best you can.



Talk about words of wisdom. Those baby steps are the ones that make me the most frustrated in the end.. and then I realize I started pursuing/pushing again.

Focusing on what WE want and our boundries brings the focus onto us again. Which is sooo easy to lose sight of.

brava



Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05