Oh, don't get my blood back to boilin', girl! It wouldn't take much! I just now reached the point where I'm planning to back off her for a minute.

Yes, we have alienation of affection -- which I've always thought was a kinda bogus law, but that's neither here nor there -- which will be the foundation of our threat to her. We'll be asking for all her financial information to see how much we want to sue her for. But like I said, I prolly won't sue her.

I'll be sure to keep you posted about how all the AofA stuff works. The reason it applies in my case is because I am preggo and it's pretty clear that H left me for her, and that she was a willing participant. And the AofA stuff *really* applies because H and I were reconciling -- and he says OW was aware of that before and during their "goodbye sex." And that "goodbye sex" transpired the very day after H and I had attended my baby's ultrasound together and found out we're having a son.

It's a really "emotional" case. But H could always say that he never told her that we were reconciling -- even if he did. Of course most people think that chances are higher either he would throw OW under the bus to try to minimize what we go after him for, or that OW will throw H under the bus for "causing" her all the drama. Then there's the third possibility that it'll push them closer together. And I don't really care. They're already together, so where do I lose?