Quote: I almost called the cops. I got really scared of him, not because of his threats, but because of how different he acted and sounded from the man I married.
I will never forget the night that my exH called and called and called...I refused to take his calls...went to bed. In the middle of the night the house alarm went off...and I freaked out and I mean freaked out...I came running out of the bedroom and saw him standing in the kitchen. The phone ringing off the hook because the alarm company was calling. My exH had given me back the keys (I trusted him and did not change the locks)...he was angry that I had not returned his calls. Told him that if he didn't leave I would have them call the cops. When we were at the Mediators he had a tantrum and my attorney said and I quote "That is the beauty of divorce Robert, she doesn't have to take your calls anymore." then proceeded to tell him he was tresspassing blah blah blah...and yes, I had the locks changed the next day and a new garage door clicker thingy installed.
He's still like that today if I don't call him back, but thankfully he doesn't break into the house anymore...but he will call and call and then call daughter and yell at her if she doesn't pick up.
