ugh, you guys are getting me to think about stuff...
When I met my H, he was a smooth talker and at first I thought he was bsing me, but because we ended up together, I figure I was really different. However, one of the OW I came to contact told me he was a smooth talker with her (at the same time he kept coming over and saying he wanted to save our M). So I can see how creepy this all sounds. Plus H threatened to take everything out of the house once I confronted him about OW. I almost called the cops. I got really scared of him, not because of his threats, but because of how different he acted and sounded from the man I married.
