Quote: Ya know, it's really weird: I haven't done the begging, pleading thing. At first, I kinda tried to corner my H to find out what the he!! was going through his head. But I never begged him to come home or anything. I guess since I'd been through this before, I just knew better. But sometimes I wonder if it gave me a disadvantage. GAL, 180s et al are so much more obvious if you've done the begging, pleading thing. My H prolly looks at me and just thinks, "Meh, didn't phase her too much. She'll be alright."
I'll do a ME TOO here...I also didn't beg/plead Wanker. My attitude and what I always told him was that if he didn't want to be with me, then I would respect that and let him go. I didn't want to go through the same BS that I did with my exH. It was about 4mos before I did the okay...I am hurting blah blah blah and his response, Why now? Why are you saying all this NOW? Who knows if it would have made a difference if I had said it in the beginning...he was playing games and out to hurt me, I simply let him know that I was tired of playing HIS game and he had won...and yes I did hurt.
That conversation led to one month of complete darkness on both of us and then led to our day together...but truly I don't think it made a difference one way or the other...it was all too late.
