Ya know, it's really weird: I haven't done the begging, pleading thing. At first, I kinda tried to corner my H to find out what the he!! was going through his head. But I never begged him to come home or anything. I guess since I'd been through this before, I just knew better. But sometimes I wonder if it gave me a disadvantage. GAL, 180s et al are so much more obvious if you've done the begging, pleading thing. My H prolly looks at me and just thinks, "Meh, didn't phase her too much. She'll be alright."
Oh well. I do things the simple way, I guess, and that's why I don't understand what he's doing. If I want attention, I ask for it ... or just make sure I get it, ya know? None of this passive-aggressive stuff, though.
But thanks for pointing that out. I've never quite thought of things that way. And I think I might scoot by the library today to see if I can find that book!
