Hey PDB, Don't worry about calling him, but please learn from his responses NOT TO DO IT AGAIN for a very long time. I kept making those little tries with my H, and finally realized all that happened when I did, was that I gave him yet another opportunity to stomp on my heart, just for fun. Sounds like your H is acting like a jerk on purpose too, with some of the quotes you listed. Next time just call your sister and cry about it if you have to.
I hope the other 364 days of 2006 are much better for you!