Quote: I love how supportive you guys are! Thanks to each of you. I actually checked with my sister, who's an RN, and she said my midwife wouldn't be able to get OW's medical records, but she could find out if anything is in her records that's "reportable," such as HIV and possible Hepatitis B -- if OW had ever been tested positive.
Yes, but THEY don't have to know midwife doesn't have that legal right! Just tell H that midwife is asking YOU to get a copy of the test results. Make them sweat!!! Make her look bad to H because she won't give him a copy, or make her feel guilty as she copies her test results to give to you. DO IT.
As for the rest - WASs will often be totally angry and inappropriate with the LBS - because anger is guilt turned outward. If he were to acknowledge what he was doing right now, he'd have to see how crummy he is. So, he provokes you instead. Don't take the bait.
