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You know what? I think it's just fine if you can't find a place in your heart for your H right now! Eventually you may get to a point where you do have room for him, but you need to worry about YOU and the baby. Right now your H is doing his best to piss you off in every way. That makes it next to impossible to keep an opening of r him! Go dark and give him the idea that he may not ever have a chance with you - do like bigAl said and have *fun* like it's going out of style! I've done some bad vengeful things that I know aren't the "right" thing to do, but it has made me feel better. I did take his toothbrush to the toilet, so everytime he brushes his teeth I laugh and smile I know it's wrong, but is adultry right?!?

I love Ellie's idea too! You are in a position to ask for this, for the safety of your baby AND the added benefit of making them feel like crap! I think it's a great idea!!!

Right now you should do things that make you feel better. I wish you were in Ohio b/c I would get you some of our famous Graeter's Ice Cream It's so good even Jessica Simpson has it shipped to her! Have you had any ice cream cravings???

Have a good day, at least as good as possible!