Quote: My midwife asked if I could call H and ask, in all seriousness, if OW had ever been exposed to Hepatitis B. I swallowed my pride and did it. He responded ever so matter-of-factly, saying, "I've already checked everything with her, and she told me she got tested for everything in October, so everything's fine."
Tell your H the midwife needs to see a copy of OW's lab results. I'd love for OW to have to go to her doctor and ask for a copy of her STD tests to be sent to her lover's pregnant wife's midwife!!! Plus, odds are fairly good that she never got tested for anything, certainly not Hepatitis B. Insist on it. AND an HIV test. Make them sweat a little.