I can of course relate to your Ws pain and hurt that she went through...however, having also been in her shoes, I would say to continue as you have been doing...if her heart is still open and I think it is...and you have truly gotten help for the drinking and depression...then she will see this...had I seen any of this from Wanker, I would have still been there for him...but when it was just another day another beer...well you just give up...I am sure it has been very hard for you too...but you truly do seem to be making ammends and you have been there for your family...a huge hug to you...you've come a long way...and I know sometimes I can read that you feel it would be best to give up...don't...continue with the therapy and let her see that you are serious.
