Actually we were both in college at the time, thus the delays in our visits...but our communication (phone, letters and cards only back in 1984) was very consistent.
Hard to speculate what he is thinking...I am sure we can all agree on that. However, if he was moving west, perhaps there would be something more you would be seeing from W as far as distancing herself from you more because her "knight" was coming out. One has to wonder (again speculate) if perhaps deep down she knows that this isn't going where she thought it might be. Again, speculation...
The fortunate thing for you and to your advantage is that despite what you may be feeling, your W is still living with you and is going to counseling.
What is it with this airfare from west coast to east coast being cheaper than I am paying to fly east. Sheesh...maybe I do need to move back home!!
