Quote: This is all a crock, I would never have a 'relationship' like she is in. As a man, I would do whatever I had to do to scrimp and save $$ to get to my 'love of my life'. Wouldn't you?
Absofreakinglutely...so if you stand back and look at the BIG picture...does it appear to you that she is pursuing him...if he's not willing to make the next step to come see her, maybe he's just not into her (hmmm...seems like a good title for a book?).
You haven't convinced me yet that he hasn't given up his GF...so that means, you aren't convinced either, are you? If he was emotionally and physically available for your W as a potential SOUL MATE then come hell or high water that man would find a way to her...and I speak this from experience Frank...
When I was 21, I met a boy from Edmonton, Canada. I lived in LA at the time. We met on his last two days in LA. Something clicked obviously because the next summer my best friend and I flew up to Canada and spent the summer there with him and his best friend...he must have thought I was WORTH it because the following summer, even though he moved to Ontario to go to school...he drove all the way to LA to spend the summer with me...we talked about getting married that summer...but it was after he left I ended up meeting my exH....oh damn...there was my fork in the road, eh?
