WOW! That last post sure put alot of thoughts in my head because many of the issues discussed are what I am experiencing right now! The OM is just a "toy" that allows her to escape reality! But my question is we are supposed to find out how our W loves the OM, so how can we help our W escape reality for awhile and find the same excitement with us?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1