Quote: Why is it that many women won't or don't INITIATE a divorce UNTIL they meet an OM? My wife didn't do it until then and we were 'getting along' pretty well.
If they did at least speak up with some real anger or hurt or something BEFORE then maybe you could actually fix the mariage?
I would think this is true of men as well as woman. Mnay men, wanting a D, wait until they find an OW before they file for D too. Wouldnt yo agree? I hear you though. In this respect I am lucky my W did not get an OM, or she has done a superb job of hidding it. Thats what has me worried. In your case, and it must be rough, the Om will be gone soon. I will bet that he is cheating on your W right now, or is planning to. He is 3,000 miles away, he needs action. Just try and forget about the OM. You are so much better than him anyway. Getting better every day too.
