I spoke with a friend tonite and told him I just can't see why my wife would trust in our relationship to give it another chance. I know I wouldn't trust it either. I think she is checked out for good and eventually in a few months we'll have taken all the garbage out of our heads and at least have a shot at having normal lives on our own.
Kinda lucky my Dr gave me better anti depressants yesterday. Good timing since I would have been much more non functional today without them. But with me things seem to show up in my life when I need them. I guess I was supposed to feel all the pain the past 3 months. Now it's ok for me to be less hurting all the time.
Quote: the underlying issue has to be dealt with by our WAS.
Yes, and in this case it will make here able to move on to a healthier life. My responsibility is to be there to accept my role and help her forgive so she can move on.
Whatever is going to happen, my life will never be like it was ever again, which is a good thing.
