Quote: It really isn't about us. It's something they need to work through. Can we make improvements in ourselves and our R? Sure. But, the underlying issue has to be dealt with by our WAS.
It is far less about us. I've had similar conversations with my T and friends. This is something - and a pattern for my W (that was broken for 12 years) that she needs to work through. It just sucks that I need to be on the sideline watching. But, think of all the good we have done for ourselves (and your D's which I think it great - sounds like you are a great father).
There is a great deal of hope for your M - stay the course. Further, I still need your inspiration. I was at the house tonight and almost snooped. But I remembered my promise!
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Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
