She said that all LBS's should let them go and focus on themselves and their families. And DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF because no matter what you did or think you did, it wasn't enought to cause this to happen, it was going to happen anyway.

Good for all of us to read, frank.
I wanted to say I agree with spitfire, in that you have 2 huge pluses here:
1. Wife still lives at home
2. She attends counseling with you

Both are big positives. I know many of us wish we had the same situation. It's hard to DB when the spouse moves out.

You are doing a wonderful job, frank.


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.