Quote: It's like, I supported her and made all the emotional investment, and did all the suffering and kept the houshold together while she let me suffer and withdrew from me, then someone ELSE get's her when she finally gets her act together.
Honey, if you think she's got her act together, then we seriously need to talk...and I mean seriously...
I want you to do me a huge favor...go stand in front of the mirror...what do you see? Hmmm...I see someone, a man, named FrankD who has HIS act together...think about it...you are there DBing your little heart out...your W still living in the house with you, your the sole support from what I can see for you family at this point emotionally while your wife is off playing high school love games with a man 3000k miles away. Personally I think Kismet needs to send her some of those freaking Snap Out of It Pills Express Mail.
Now look at things from om POV...he's got a woman STILL living with him. I think he is still very emotionally and I bet ya still very physically involved with too...Aw come one...think about it...your W is an illusion to him, a fantasy...that they can both take part it...oh paleez...
Okay...still looking in the mirror my friend...tell me what do YOU see now?
Your wife is teasing you...opening the door nakeed???? OH paleez again...she's toying with you...I have to wonder if this isn't all some sort of game on her part to get you to pay attention to her...what were you like before all this happened?? What was your life together like?
Okay you can leave the mirror now...but I want to know what you see when you look in it....I see a MAN!! A real man...not too many of you around...
