Good move, going on the walk. And I think you did fine, especially putting her in her place over that money. You were polite but to the point about it.
then someone ELSE get's her when she finally gets her act together. frank, your wife believes she and OM were whales. I do not call this getting her act together. YOU on the other hand, have your act together, and you are right--she doesn't deserve you the way you are now.
I know how awful this is for you, especially since your wife does live at home. I think you have incredible strength. Keep focusing on the kids, they need you. They see their mom acting very oddly and they are upset. You be their rock. Let her continue IM'ing and such; this is going to get old, frank. Just keep being pleasant but detatched and you will make it.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
