Hi Frank,

Don't know what to tell you. She's an alien.

I think you did the right thing by taking the walk with her. Pointing out that you need to save $ for the divorce was good, too. I think they need to face a little reality now and then.

I'm starting to get a little aggravated by her "flashing tendancies". She knows exactly what she's doing. If she does it again, I would immediately turn around and walk away. She can come out and get the phone when she puts her robe on!

I'm probably not in the best frame of mind to be helping you right now. Just went through a semi-heated encounter with WAH regarding our finances and other stuff. Found out that he was pissed at me because I didn't tell him some info. I knew about his S27. He and his son have been estranged for years. Anyway, he really thought I was in the wrong and decided he wouldn't tell me he was living with OW because I didn't tell him about his son. LOL those 2 things are equal!
Bottom line, he felt betrayed that I didn't call him with the info. He still expects me to be his friend.??????
Don't think that will happen. More power to all of those out in DBLand that can pull that one off.


It's so hard to not hate her, and I find myself doing it a lot lately.


Don't try and deny these feeling to yourself. You need to feel them and then let them go.

IMHO I still think your W is waffling. I still think there is hope here for you and your family. Only you will know when you've had enough. If the most important thing to you is saving your M then hang in there.

Hope your day gets better.

Spitfire


Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain