I am so proud of you!! When you first came on this board you were defeated and seemed to have given up on LIFE. I used to be so worried about you just a few weeks ago. Now you are like a completely different person.
You are handling this very well. I love the way you are challenging your wife's candycoated views of the marriage, divorce and the affair. Keep putting it out there like it IS. Maybe sooner or later she'll open her eyes.
As for the "psychic attack", you know I don't by into any of that stuff, but some people do and to them the power of suggestion is real. Those that dabble in that stuff are definitely under attack but it's not from a jealous woman. Personally, I think she just had gas.
You are doing very well. Keep up the brutal honesty. It will help to keep her from completely residing in fantasy land.
