Some of the best advice here...I too know from experience that only you can decide how to proceed and what to do...it ain't over til YOU say it's over...friends and family are always looking out for you...the way they think you should live too. I know from day one I heard You can do better than him...be thankful...blah blah blah...but it was a decision that I made on my own...they don't live my life and I certainly as hell would not want to live theirs either. So live for you and decide for you.

I don't really waste my friends time about stuff...only in severe desperation will I call them. This is what this BB is for...because all of us understand on here. We come here and vent and it frees us a bit...but even so, with all the wisdom and experience here...you still have to live your own life...



love, laughter and friendship, Lisa