Totally agree with caverna and NYS. I know that some of my family and friedns think I'm nuts, but they've never been in my place. I've said this before on my own thread and on others: I can always kick him out. I can always get a divorce. I won't always have the opportunity to work on my marriage and on myself like this. I'll give this road, the road less taken, a chance.
Please be careful around well-meaning friends who tell you to just move on. They've never stood where you are now. You are the only one who can decide what's right for you.
