Hi Wrongedwife,

I really need some advise again. I may have to break my darkness on Monday.

It's a long story, but I was going to my daughter's house (three hours away) on Christmas day to exchange gifts with her and her H but b/c of car problmes don't want to try it. Also my H is buying a car from D and he needs it. So my D and her H want to bring the car here and have our Christmas Mon evening with the 4 of us.

I was originally suppose to be with my H on Sunday, but since I went dark, thought it best not to. I might have plans for Sat night and maybe Sun. My question is; can I be with my WAH and D and her H on Mon without breaking the no-contact that I imposed since this is almost a have-to sitch? I though I could kind of ignore him. Thoughts?

I welcome any advise on this, as I really feel overwhelmed by it.

Rere