I dont sense you are trying to be it either (whatever it is) so keep it up.
I'm not sure what your message here is, but I wanted to let you know that the Sawgrass Palmetto seems to make a difference in our lovemaking. At least, my erections seem to become harder and last longer since beginning to take the palmetto. I don't know if this is just temporary or due to some unknown unconscious thing, but thought you might like to know. The pharmacist I asked about the drug said it is used for prostrate health - keeps the vessels to the prostrate open so that the prostrate does not swell or expand (a common occurence in men in my age range (58). I assume that this means there is more blood flow to the penis and thus more sensitive erections, but I am only assuming. Again, in the past few years, I have noticed that my erections have not lasted as long as previously - while massaging and touching my wife's clitoris and nipples in order to bring her to orgasm, my erection would soften, due to the time necessary for the above. I was assuming this was a result of, as a urologist told me, "You're not eighteen anymore." So I don't know if the sawgrass is the result of this recent hardness (!?) but hope it continues. And thank you for the advice. And L'Shannah Tovah (Hebrew - Happy New Year - actually this is said during High HOly Days, in October, but whatever).
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.