Sheesh, you guys are too much. I understood what HP was saying. She's simply saying that it was wrong for her to expect MrHP to do whatever she wanted regardless of his feelings, wants, needs, desires, whenever she wanted it and in the way she wanted it done; Hence, her love SLAVE. She's not entitled to that, and she is just saying that she realizes that now. Love should be something freely given: since it is a gift, you shouldn't expect to be able to dictate the terms of how and when it shall be shown. On the other hand, it is reasonable to state your prefereneces, and in an ideal R, your lover will do what he or she can to cater to your preferences. Big differences between stating preferences and making (or wishing) demands and expecting them to be fulfilled exactly as you wish.
--GGB, wondering if MrsGGB would be my love slave for a day
