Quote: 3. Falling asleep on me. I guess she can't help it, but it just doesn't compute in my testosterone riddled brain how someone can fall asleep during sex or heavy affection.
EXACTLY!!!!! What is it with LD's and SLEEP!!! Not saying this is true for all of them, but for most it seems to be true. The book talk about it, I see it in person in my own wife. There are certain things that help relax her that can lead to arrousal. But these are also often lead to sleep! How can ANYONE fall asleep during sexual activity? And yet she does. To be honest how can anyone actually value sleep ABOVE sex? It's like their brain and their bodies really don't talk to each other 'cause the erotic stimulation does not even register with their brain.