1. His holier than thou attitude. "I have to teach you the right way to live". 2. Anger/criticism. 3. Putting me last on his list of priorities, after church, work, kids, in that order. 4. Being relentlessly negative. 5. Being too lazy to have sex.
These are the things that killed my relationship with him and ALL of them had to go in order for us to be able to move forward.
I'm sure I have a list of things that I did to kill the R and maybe I will think it up and post it later. Top o the list, though, would be my attitude that I am a princess and I shouldn't have to DO anything to have a man drooling over my charms and willing to be at my beck and call.
