WCW,

I have to agree with the others... also because I too am realizing that once things got better I had to sabatoge them a bit. In so many H is taking way more risks than I am ... I finally am seeing this.

I keep seeing HIS anger and how HE is stuck in the past but I got plenty of my own. Seems to come out esp. when I feel we are connecting.

I have read so many books and have many more to go. I guess I finally have to read the Mars Venus book.

Hang in there. I have given myself 1 super baby goal a day that is an action where I take a risk with my H in some tiny way. Maybe there is something like that you could do: small so you dont feel like you are pusing but something you can say" did it. nice job me!"


brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05