In one of the books I am reading it talks about mood and how we perecieve things. This difference between you and H could be seen as an area of conflict and get you down because they seem to be at odds with one another. OR... the book says you can approach it as "wow, isnt this difference great. We really compliment each other and balance each other out!" I know it is a "duh" of sorts but it is interesting how often we (or at least me!) see differences in the M as problems instead of strenghts.
just a thought...
brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05