Hanging on/The Long Haul #6

[DonH]

"If it happens, I'll deal with it. But for now I'm still 'buying' more time, and admittedly, there is still a fear issue of life without him. "

And the problem is - he knows it. I'm not going to push you, just a quick little nudge. H knows this about you. He can see it, sense it, smell it. The thing is, you might be amazed at how worried he would become if you did a 180. I think you'd see more change in him in a couple of days than you have seen in a year. Sure, it's real easy for me to say sitting here and typing and way harder to do. But keep in mind, you know what will not work - and what won't work is what you've already tried. It's time to try something else - whatever that is, and keep trying something else until you find what works.