Hi lady! Thanks for the visit to my thread! Just want to let you know that I'm reading too. When I was up in the wee hours I went to look at the very beginning of your threads. On one post you said your H mentioned you two just being business partners and you told him that if you were partners you wanted the whole package. Is that correct? I'm worried that he's getting just what he wanted. How much do you know about OW? Is she a woman that would pressure him to be with her full time or do you think she might be happy with a handyman that she doesnt have to pay attention to and take care of every day? I have a couple of divorced women friends who like to have a man there when they want him, but wouldnt think about making it permanent or living with a man. They love their freedom and their *cake*. Could she be that way? She's free of her first hubby and is content with a part time guy? I just wonder how comfortable this arrangement is for them.

Just some thoughts. Don't know if any of that's helpful at all. Have you looked at Love Must Be Tough lately? You know how I am.. I'd have given up patience and issued an ultimatum long ago, but that's not the answer in so many cases. I just wish so much for your happiness.. you're a wonderful wonderful woman WCW. You H makes me so mad being the way he is! I just want to tell him to sh*t or get off the pot because he takes so much and is selfish about giving you anything.. even freedom if that's what he wants.

Take care!

sheila