You mean someone besides the OW I already know about? Maybe, but again, the whole ski patrol group at the hill would know too, and we do occassionally get together, and those guys don't keep their mouths shut for anyone. And, I do know from past cell phone bills that when he quit calling me on his drive home it was because he started calling ow then instead. Does she ski? does she go to the hill? do they meet on the slopes and have few moments when the hill closes? is that why he gets home an hour or more late from skiing? I don't know those answers, if I really wanted to know I'd just drive over myself and ski and keep my eyes open. While it drives me nuts what he does and all his secrets, I can't let it consume me and run my life. Personally, I think their affair has lost some of it's steam for H, but there is still a strong attraction between them, which is how it all started in the first place. She still has a good grasp on him, but I'm not so sure he thinks it will be so much fun at her place, SSDD (Same Sh*t Different Day). She wants him to come and help, to offer advice, to assist her. Heck, isn't that what he's trying to escape from? Responsibility and committment? go live in an apartment? Now another day I'll probably have a different answer. I am not always in control of my rational thoughts.
Locking them up would be a good idea, but where would we find a room large enough?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
