Alrighty bigAl, I am sending you his email address, or would you prefer cell phone number?
I really do wish someone would talk to him, I've even thought about talking to the friend H was with yesterday. Explaining to him some of what is happening to us, maybe even leave out OW, and talk about the other resulting problems. Maybe this guy could give ME a whole different insight into what is going on with H. But again, I fear the public displays of our situation. If hubby decides to run, this guy will be one of the first I ask for advice. Do I wait until then? or is it something I should do sooner? I just don't know.
So what forum is the WAW doesn't want to walk away? I should be posting there!
I suppose I am extra frustrated today because I asked H to let me know about the stuff at home so I could make a plan. BIG mistake. I expected it wouldn't be a problem for him to make a simple contact with me to let me know, but he's bucking the plan again.
Detach from the bad parts, refocus, less consumed. Portray confidence! No, BE confident!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.