How to proceed?

[Becca1975]

I don't want to have sex with H after he just screamed and cussed me for all I am worth simply eqaulled I do not want to have sex. Not interested and so forth. But truth is I am fine with sex I just don't care to have it with someone that is mean all the time except when we are having sex.

Boy did that ring a bell with me Chrissy. Does it ever. He could never understand that. He could never understand why I wouldn't want to put my arms around him and pull him close after he had called me a fat b*tch, or told me basically how worthless I was.