I don’t know how to answer you. I would like to think that I would resist if and when temptation arises. It’s happened several times since the A, but I’ve always run away. If I feel tempted to cross the line, I back away from the R. We can never really tell what we would do in any given sitch (just read LFL’s thread where she talks about people asking why she and H are back together), but I would like to think that I would be firm in my beliefs and principles.
Do I se this as a potential problem? Yes, I do. But it’s not a problem I haven’t already been facing for years. Like I said, I don’t think I’m redefining my M; I’m just acknowledging and trying to accept what already is.
