What if she does know? What if, consciously or unconsciously she is choosing not to meet your needs. What if the reason she isn't is because you don't listen, don't ask questions, don't even know who she is? What if her behavior is a message to you?
Cemar, I mean this in the kindest of ways. Start really "listening" and responding to the people on this board (particularly women) and maybe you can start doing it in real life. My hunch is Cemar that despite the AOS that you have listed on this board your angry attitude, your negativity toward your W, your insistence in pigeon holing her as "LD" comes through loud and clear at home.
