I understand that there are different ways to create an EC. What is imporant is that each person must UNDERSTAND how to GIVE the EC to their spouse in the way that the SPOUSe wants. So if I give my wife EC, she may feel great, but this will result in virtually NO EC for me. And she like MOST LD people, does not understand that EC for many people is almost entirely a PHYSICAL thing. She thinks that the way SHE EC's is the way I would EC, which of course is very wrong.
So I thought I would start with somthing SIMPLE that needs to be fixed. Let's assume that I have met her needs FULLY for EC. Now it is HER turn to meet my needs for EC. My need for EC can come through kissing, and often via French kissing. I want frequent kissing, some French kissing, and it must be done with enthusiasim (as should all needs in marriage for both spouses). Now realize that my wife tells me she does not like the way I kiss, especially with all the tongue. So my guess is that my wife does NOT like French kissing.
So put on your MC hats and tell me what the solution is to this simple problem. (believe me, there are far harder problems I could have picked).
